Situation like such, I’ve seen and experienced many a time.
And I often questioned why.

I don’t wanna stereotype but just let me be for this time.
Boyfriend’s friend, girl friend’s boyfriend, guy friends, boyfriend, and ex boyfriend, sometimes they do really act the same.

Sometimes they don’t mean to do it. Sometimes their brain did not function on that particular day. Sometimes they say it’s just a guy thing.
Sometimes they say we girls take it too seriously. Sometimes to them we are insane.
Most of the time, they neglect our feelings.

Maybe guys are insensitive beasts. Maybe guys do not have as much empathy as girls. Maybe they think they’re too cool to even care.

Every human being including you, me, or Brad Pitt are not perfect.
Your girlfriend is not, neither are you.

I saw guy friends doing nasty things behind the girlfriend’s back.
I knew my girl friend’s boyfriend doing nasty things behind her back.
Then I experienced it myself, both ways during the past.

Every single time, I feel agitated. I hate this fact.

It wasn’t exactly that kind of cheat, sex and all.
To guys, it might not be something. In fact, to them it is always nothing.

Not sex but your girlfriend’s feeling should still be taken care of.
The girl you love most. And the girl who love you the most.

I hate my friend because he did not for a single second at that moment consider the feeling of my girl friend.
I was upset for I know that this will definitely hurt my friend a lot.

Guys, please.

Before you hug another girl at the dance floor, rubbing your stupid dick on another girl’s back could you please take a moment to consider your girlfriend’s feeling who actually trust and love you more than anyone else?

Before you pull a girl over so that she can sit on your lap at some dodgy bar, could you please spare a second to think of the person who love you the most?

You know what?
These pleasure to you guys that last for a few hours is a pain for your girlfriend that might last for years. Or maybe a lifetime.
Because they lost trust in you. In guys. And in love.

Before you decide to do something that is this stupid, please put yourself in her shoes and think.
How would you feel if your girlfriend is the one who hugs and dances with a guy, rubbing her boobs on the guy’s chest.
How would you feel if your girlfriend is the one who sits on some other guy’s lap at some dodgy bar?

You think you’ll like it? Fancy that feeling?

Most of the time the guy will go mad, like a fukken mad dog. (Yes, they can be this unfair sometimes. Peanut brain.)

If you don’t bloody like the feeling, please don’t friggin do things like such to hurt the person who love you the most.
I’m actually getting more angry as I type, thinking bout guys like that!!

For guys who always think that your girlfriend is not hot enough, not pretty enough, not smart enough, and the list goes on…
Please take a look at yourself.
So you have a body like David Beckham? So you have a career like David Beckham? So you are as rich as David Beckham? So you are as handsome as David Beckham?

If the answer is no, then stop comparing your girlfriend with some other girls and constantly think that she’s not good enough for you!

Seriously! Guys like that don’t deserve having a girlfriend.
Just go and hug girls at dodgy bar everyday, that will do the trick.

I know not all guys act that way and if you’re one who doesn’t act that way, I like you!
Because guys like that are hard to come by these days.
Because you’re a good man for taking care of your girlfriend’s feelings.

I also know there are girls out there who act this way and turns the situation around.
So it’s not always the guys but in this case I’m talking bout guys so I don’t really care lah…

Also, I don’t only mean cheating and stuff.
Being in a relationship means that you have to consider the feelings of your another half.
Stop putting them into hell if you love them and if you don’t love them enough, call it quit and stop wasting each other’s time.

Youth is precious.

P/S: For people who like to assume, don’t assume. I’ve been wanting to let this out for the longest time because sometimes I feel like some of my girl friends has got the worst boyfriend and I feel angry, like now!