Time heals all wounds.

I’ve got nothing interesting to blog about lately or that my post just doesn’t seems interesting enough to me. Either way.
But I wont say that my life is uninteresting lately since every now and then people come out with some unexpected surprise for me which I don’t very welcome.

Time heals everything, very true indeed.
But exactly how much time do we need, none can answer that question.

I finally have the chance to meet this friend of mine two days ago while clubbing, after more than a year.
I’m not sure if we’re still consider as friends because we don’t seem like we are one.
We had a conflict last year, we hated each other’s attitude.
I was beyond upset because I sincerely treated him as a good friend.
It’s so bad we’re not even friends on Facebook anymore.

Bumping into him again that day feels awkward.
I always come across situations like this. Bumping into the wrong people. I hate ignoring people who are once my friend but every time I tried to squeeze that word ‘Hi’ through my throat, it doesn’t seem to come out.
Every single time.
I dare not look at him for fear that I might not be able to squeeze the word ‘Hi’ again.
But he’s just right beside me! He looked at me, we shook our hands and talk a little. Finally.

I was happy despite how ugly it was long ago.
Things that matter then do not matter to me now.
In fact I’ve already forgotten about the incident and move on.
In fact sometimes I miss him (as a friend) because we use to spent so much time together, hanging out.
In fact we use to be damn good friends.

And it was a relieve, really.
At least things weren’t that bad. At least we talk.
My other friend who stand right opposite of us keeps repeating the word, ‘So fake..’
I’m not sure if he’s being fake but I know I’m not.
I just need some time to shake that awkwardness away and be comfortable all over again.

To me, time heals everything.
But to others, I’m not so sure.
If you’re still mad or unsatisfied about something, it is just because you do still care.
If you don’t care, why are you mad in the first place? Right?

Even this girl who used to hate me damn lot added me in social networking sites recently.
Even me and my ex started talking and I stop hating him.
I don’t really care bout what he did or did not do anymore because it’s no longer my concern which is also why we can be normal friends and talk.

All these stupid things that happen, again and again is about misunderstanding.
Everybody has got it’s own version of stories but stories don’t consist of just one people.
If you get what I mean.

Me talking to that particular friend and my ex is the best to prove to myself that time indeed can heal everything.
Or at least for me.

1 Comment

  1. bacterium October 1, 2011

    Time heals all wounds, but as part of growing old process, time wounds all heels. To forgive is alright, but make sure don’t do the same mistake again.


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