One thing I learned from my past – hating a person is one of the best way to torture yourself (well, that is if you intend to make yourself suffer).
Like love, hate is a strong word.
And I used to hate, a lot.
I hated these people so much that if killing isn’t a crime, I’ll prolly kill him/her at that very moment.
Hate – to the core.

Funny thing about hatred is that the hate you have for that particular person do not really inflict pain on them, but instead on yourself.
The greater the hate, the greater the suffering you’re gonna get.

I must say I’m definitely not a person with a high EQ and for me to let go off the hatred is indeed quite a difficult task for me.
I tried letting things go for a couple of times but sometimes I fail because I get extremely agitated and upset when people try to provoke me.
Especially when I found out that people do me wrong. Somewhere in between I couldn’t control my feelings and actions and I tend to spit out the meanest words possible.
After a while I told myself to calm the f* down and let things go.
And then I tried again. And again. And again.

When I finally get to do it, I realise that I have less ‘burden’ with me. I feel so much lighter and happier. I lost the negative energy and exchange it with positive ones.
Now, I stop hating people who wronged me. All the betrayals, lies, and those who framed me up. I truly feel much better that way.

Hating, is really such a waste of time and a waste of your own energy.
What’s done is done, it’s the past, especially if the hatred comes from a previous relationship.
Why hate when you’re so much closer with the one you’re meant to be with or better still when you’re already with him/her.
Pretty pointless to be angry over the past for so long. Let go off the grudges.
A lot of times, two individuals hate each other due to misunderstanding because in a way or another, there will never be an open heart conversation and trust.
But if one tries to tweak his/her perception a little bit and try not to hate, sometimes it does work.

And all this, is one of the best thing I learned from the worst experience.
It is always better to have friends than enemies. (:

Holding on to anger is like grasping a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at someone else; you are the one who gets burned. – Quote from Bhuddha

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And as you can tell from my previous post, which is a password protected post that I’m pretty mad about something. I was days ago, but now no longer. (: