If you think you can change someone, you’ll prolly only be disappointed in the end.
Temporary change, that is. I might be wrong.

But that’s what I believe in.
Only situations can change a person.
Situations, experiences. And most of the time, it’s a bad one that changes them.

No matter how hard people dear to you try to give advise on how some things will do you no good, you just wouldn’t listen. It’s just human being being a human being.
We just don’t listen until it’s too late.

Like how I wouldn’t listen to my bff on certain things until she proves herself right which is already too late for me by then.
She must’ve been mad because it is pretty damn annoying when you care about someone, wanting the best for them but they just wouldn’t care.
That’s how i learnt my lesson and changed.
And I remember someone once said to me, ‘you don’t have to nag and act that way. If I don’t wanna listen, let me learn myself’.
Well said.

You just cant forced people to listen to you if they’re not willing to.
Maybe all is needed is for the worst to happen and then you can stand upfront and say, ‘I fucking told you so but sorry it’s too late.’

#justsaying